Monday, March 17

PPD

When I was growing up our cousins, the Asletts, would come to visit us quite a lot. We loved having them stay with us and always had a great time together. Invariably, immediately after they left we would always have a day of just feeling kind of down and sad. We called what we were feeling "Post Aslett Depression" or PAD. I think it was my sister who came up with the term and it was then used to describe the letdown we experienced after having anyone come and stay with us. I don't know if this is a common experience, but we would all get so hyped to have company and love being together with visiting friends and family that when they left we would have a day of "Post (insert name here) Depression."

Well, this weekend my parents came to visit and we had a wonderful time!!! They played with my girls non-stop, brought easter a week early, helped me clean out and organize my house and yard, and were the best of company. So today, inevitably, I am experiencing PPD- "Post Parental Depression." In thinking about it though, I totally believe that having Post (insert name here) Depression is a great thing to experience because it shows you that you truly enjoyed your company and can't wait to see them again soon, rather than feeling relief after company leaves and freedom that you are alone again. I think anyone who visits us should take it as a compliment that I will ALWAYS (because I know that people who visit us will be great friends, family, or friends of friends) have Post (insert name here) Depression and want you to come again soon!!!



*Disclaimer: I know that from these last two posts I sound totally down in the dumps, but these were the ideas on my mind and the best things I could think of to write. No worries, I am happy and healthy! :)

9 comments:

Vonnie said...

It was a fabulous weekend and we loved every minute of it. Thanks to Amamda Philipp for giving me the idea for Easter dresses and sweaters (an in my favorite color too!) because E and L sure looked cute in them. I too love visitors and I always feel sad when they leave. There is nothing I love more than having family and friends come for a visit. We'll be back!

Sarah said...

Yay for fun visits from family! I totally agree with the empty-house-with-nothing-to-do-after-everyone-leaves symdrome ;) We feel that way after you guys come visit for sure! So come back and visit already ;)

Annie said...

The girls look so adorable in their Easter dresses. What kind parents you have!

Rebecs said...

I am so glad your mom found the dresses for both the girls. I went to go find one for M to be twiners with L & H but no luck. So glad your mom was successful! Having your parents come visit any time would cause PPD. They are wonderful! I sure hope your dad was able to get all the games he was worried about watching.

The Davies Family said...

I totally know what you mean..we would always get what we called (person's name) sick..kind of like home sick but for a person. It was always for our grandma. Me and Hillary and Haley would always feel so down when she left and we'd say, 'we're grandma sick' I don't know the official term for that kind of sad feeling, I'm sure its what my kids feel everytime we have family come out to visit and then leave. have you checked out our blog? its
www.daviesfam5.blogspot.com

Lee said...

i always loved having company when we lived in AZ it was always so fun planning for their visit, and it was a big let down after they left- so i feel your pain- also the sadness of having friends move- it's no good- because sometimes you never find as great of friends. sorry to tell you that- but you'll still have the great friendship even if you don't live close by

VFR said...

Thanks, Jord, for the post. I can relate to the post (insert name here) depression) since we've experienced it on a number of occasions, most particularly recently when you kids have to leave after visiting to go back home. We loved being with you, and had a great weekend! Thank to you and J for your hospitality. It was so fun to play with the kids, too!

As for friends moving, I wouldn't know about the sadness that can bring, since I don't have any friends. Oh well, it's easier that way.

RR

Claire said...

Yes I do take credit for inventing PAD. Sounds like you guys had a fun trip together. I love that L knows mom's fave color is purple.

Jord said...

I am glad that other people experience the after company let down, and glad that my sissy came up with the perfect descriptive name for it.

Ann: Yes, having good parents and better grandparents for your kids is wonderful!

Sorry Rebecs that M and M couldn't be twins, but I bet Mason was glad he didn't have to wear a dress. :)

Alexis: Yes, your blog is darling and I'm glad to reconnect! I bet you get even more sad when people leave being so far away and all.

Leemo: So true- some friends just can't be replaced!

RR: I guess there are some advantages to being friendless. :)

Claire: Just tell me your favorite color and I'll have L learn it too. She is definitely into a favorite phase right now....