So I've only been the Mom of a school kid for 19 school days, but I'm feeling worn out!
(Imagine how my kid feels)
First, this school stuff is EVERY day. I knew that in my mind, but after picking up, dropping off, doing homework, packing a lunch, etc. I'm feeling tired. And there is no end in sight. The school schedule rules.
Second, what do you do with all of the stuff they send home? I'm used to an art project a week from preschool that I put up on the wall, but every day she comes home with multiple worksheets, fliers, fundraisers, notes, books to read, a homework packet, etc. Any best practices for handling all of this paper??? (I can't imagine the volume of this stuff with more than 1 kid)
Third, I have abandoned the illusion that Moms with kids in school have a whole free day to themselves. First, I have my other two girls to attend to, and second, I spend most of the day time hours doing my chores, shopping, and tasks so that I'll be free after school to help with piano and homework and have a little time to play with the girls together. Having kids in school doesn't mean a picnic for the Mother.
Fourth, before having a school girl, the afternoon hours between 3 and 6 often dragged on. I'd spend the morning with the girls doing an activity, attending a class, or visiting a park and then we'd eat lunch, they'd have some down time while I got my chores done. After that they'd play some more, but by 4:00 we were all out of ideas of things to do and there was still daylight left. Now I feel like the hours from 3-6 move like lightening as the girls have a little time to play, we make and eat dinner, and get things done. Boring afternoons are over. (Not to mention what you do if they are involved in after school sports/dance/piano/gym/activities.)
Fifth, it's goodbye to my carefree days of being in charge of the daily schedule (or lack thereof). I am now a subject of the school district. You think that for a girl who loves structure and routine I'd be happy to accept this externally imposed regimen, but I'm missing those carefree days of planning my own schedule.
That said, I feel like I made the best of the first 5 years and thoroughly enjoyed planning out our days and having adventures together. The adventures will continue, but now I've got to learn to march to the beat of the school drum.