Post from Jordan's mother

The talk by Elder Paul Johnson gave me great comfort at the last general conference.  Since Jake has died, I'm so grateful for the knowledge we have of the plan of salvation. We know where we came from, why we are here on earth and what we are supposed to do - knowing that we will be tested and tried to see if we will remain true to Jesus Christ and his teachings. Depending on how valiant we are in the effort of staying true to Christ, we know where we are going.  Attending our temples and making and keeping sacred covenants will further determine our future happiness.

Jake and Jordan have all these important steps in place.  In their short 12 years of married life, they have made choices and kept covenants that have placed them and their family squarely on the path towards eternal life.  Together.  As a family.  They have accomplished in 12 short years what it takes many of us years to accomplish.  And they did it with a grateful, if not heartbroken, heart.  They get it.  They know the plan. They have faith in the plan. Their courage and determination to hold fast to what they KNOW to be true carries them.

I'm so grateful to Jake for being courageous, strong and brave.  He didn't complain or murmur about this cancer diagnosis.  He accepted the terrible burden that was placed on his shoulders and did his very best to help his family prepare for the future without him and ultimately, to prepare for his death.  He is a true believer in God and His Son and his belief strengthens our belief. His testimony of Christ is at the core of his being. He is at the center of the calm that is felt in their home.

I'm grateful for Jordan and I'm so extremely proud of the way she has come to accept and carry, as best she can, this terrible challenge and ultimate loss of her dear husband.  Her example of strength and faith has influenced hundreds through her blog and the sharing of their journey.  She is an example of a true believer in how she thinks, acts, speaks and in what she does. She has sought the power of the atonement through prayer, fasting and faith and has found the strength necessary to lose the one thing she values most in life.  Her dear Jacob.

I'm grateful for four little children who are doing the best they can at their tender ages to understand and cope with the loss of their daddy.  Their childlike faith is simple and yet strong and they know that their Heavenly Father loves them, as does their dear father Jake.  That great outpouring of love will give them strength to cope better in the days ahead with the help of their mother, and many others who love them dearly.

I'm grateful for all the good people who have inquired about Jake and who have reached out and helped their family through this past two years and three months.  Thousands of prayers have gone heavenward for this little family.  Fasting, temple prayer roll and many other helps and services have been offered and freely given to this family.  Words can't express the gratitude I feel for scores of good people who have aided this little family and who have mourned with them and comforted them in their extremities.

I'm grateful that Jake's parents could rent an apartment and stay in Phoenix to be near Jordan and Jake and their family.  Their love and support is invaluable and we all appreciate their love and concern as they rendered daily service in his final months. May they also feel of our love for them and their wonderful family as they have had to say goodbye to their dear son and brother. Jake's brother Matt and his sweet wife Jessica have been especially helpful since they have lived closest and gave tremendous service and love.

I'm grateful that my husband, my children and their spouses, and I have drawn closer together as we have pleaded with the Lord in prayer to send strength, comfort and peace to this family and to us as we have mourned the loss of our dear Jake. We love him and his sweet family so dearly and he will be sorely missed.

And I'm grateful to God. I trust Him.  I don't understand all His ways or the reasons why things happen, but I trust Him.  I know that ALL things will be made right through Christ.  I'm trying to be still...and find God to strengthen me and those I love through the power of his son's marvelous atonement.